It is an obvious fact on its own that girls generally are being surrounded almost every time by guys. It is a natural phenomenon. But the question here is, how does girl knows if a guy really loves her? There are some ways to test a guy and find out if he really loves you. Let’s run them down.
o. Ask him questions;
There are some certain questions that when put to a guy, you will sense something deep from his reactions or his answers, but mostly from his reactions. But mind you, the times you ask these questions also matter a lot. Never ask your guy any of these questions when he is busy with something he derives happiness from, maybe having sex with you, or about to, or doing any of the house chores that makes him happy or anything at all, you definitely will get a positive answer which may not be the true answer, but he probably gave you that answer not to get distracted from his enjoying moment; to keep the vibe rolling. Ask him these questions when he is bored, or thinking, or just scrolling through the pages of his social accounts or just relaxing doing nothing, I bet you, you are on the verge of getting that answer you have been wanting to get. Ask him questions like;
(a) Do you really love me?
(b) Are you seeing another one?
(c) How do you see our future together?
(d) Would you love to have kids with me?
(e) You have not told me about her?
(f) Why are we together now?
I will not go further in order not to bombard you with lots of them, but mind you, before you ask your guy any of these questions, make sure that you really love him and that you have really gone far in knowing each other, at least to an extent. Now, it is the guy’s turn. Follow me meticulously please.
o. Watch his reactions;
Watch his body movements, if possible lean on him when asking those questions above and monitor the change in his heart bit, whether it increased or decreased or maintained its normal rate. All these things matter a lot. An increase in his heart bit means that you really got him, and there is higher chance that he truly loves you, a guy who does not really love you will not breathe fast because of you or get some amount of fear for you. If the heart bit remains the same or reduce which is very rare for it to reduce, be careful and know that the guy may just want you for sexual satisfaction.
Still on the guy’s reaction, if he shifts you aside if you are leaning on him, then comes closer to you, kisses you on the forehead especially or holds your two hands not one or stands up and raises you up to himself, or stands up then extends his hand for an embrace. With that, there is 70% assurance that he loves you.
o. Listen to what he says;
Then if the guy tells you things like, you are my only one, you are very special to me, you are everything to me, etc. you are 71% sure he loves you.
o. Watch his actions, words after that day;
If the guy does not change in his attitudes and choice of words toward you, your friends, when just alone together, when you are together outside, when with friends or people. You are 80% sure he loves you. Mind you, if the guy goes to a far extent in trying to impress you with gifts, or loyalty, the chances that he is playing are higher, but know it that after you asked your guy any or couple of these questions, one who truly loves will think of showing you that he truly loves you but will never go to a far extent, very rare. A guy who truly loves you knows that you will spend more than enough time together, so no need trying to impress you in a very big way since you have a whole lot of goodies to enjoy with him.
I would like to hear from you, and please try this process and get back to me for a follow up. Drop your comment on the comment section if you have a suggestion or a question or a little bit of confusion. Thanks.